J and K,
When will you both stand up and admit what you done to your own children? As long as you blame everyone else, you will never correct what you have done. Both of you, know what you were doing to your own children. And it is no one’s fault but your own.
You both seem to blame all who reported you both for child abuse such as teachers, landlords, friends and family. Are all of us wrong? Are all of us lying? No, you know we are not lying. You know what you have done and have to live with it.
K, you had a choice, you could of chosen to leave J and choose your children but you didn’t. Your grandma has filled your head so full of lies that you are becoming her turning your head from the truth and chose to stay with an abuser. Did you forget what you told me outside your grandma’s house about her and what she did to you as a child? Seems this family has a hard time remembering what they say and do.
But what really gets me is all you accuse of abusing you, your dad, your grandma, uncle, aunts and even your husband is who you choose to be around. You chose this for yourself. You have lost four of your children and soon will the 5th one as well. Yet you still stand by the man who abused you and your children.
I am so disappointed that you are listening to abusers in our family and his family and not thinking of your children at all. That you couldn’t love them more. And now they are gone and yet you still stand by their abusers and even joined in on the abuse.
I don’t want revenge that belongs to God but I will seek justice for all the children.