I have never met my granddaughter baby M but I have seen her around town with her mother (my daughter). I pray for her as well as I do all of my ten grandchildren. I long for justice for them but I know this will not happen until Jesus returns and judges righteously this wicked world.
The truth is we live in a wicked world who does not have the love of God in it. I know it is easier to hate than it is to love but I choose to love even my enemies.
I know one day that Kaylie, Gerald, Patrick, Kaytlynn, Stephen and baby M will read this blog one day and maybe learn some truth to the madness in our family. Maybe they will see they did have family who fought for them to be free from all abuse and how much they were and are loved.
My sweet dear grandchildren please know that your heavenly Father has not forgotten you and that he loved you so much that he died for you so one day you could be free and live with him.
If I am no longer here by the time you get to read this please remember that your Gammy & PaPa loves you very much.
It can be very hard when dealing with the courts and CPS as the case(s) goes on for years and years.
Maybe because there is new judges, new district attorneys, new case workers, etc.
It seems to be different cases when each child is removed making it even more difficult. It’s like a vicious cycle that goes around and around and you end up back where you started.
I will never understand how abuse of children can go on for 70+ years, children removed by OKDHS, returned, state custody, adopted, and even death yet they act as if they are deaf, dumb and blind to it all when you talk to them about the abuse.
There has been 30+ CHILDREN that have either been abused, neglect or sexually abused by family members. There are many more out there that I don’t know about, yet. What is sad is many times the boys grow up to be unregistered sex offenders and the girls grow up to protect these abusers and not their own children..
No one ever went to jail for the abuse, neglect and sexual abuse of children. And all we hear from OKDHS/CPS is our job is to “Unify the family” Really? How would you like to be held hostage, abused, neglected, raped, finally freed only for a court of law to put you back with your abusers?
Where is the justice for all these children?
OKLAHOMA: CHILD ABUSE IS NOT OK!
I cannot believe the courts would think it was okay to return the last child (Baby M) to a mother who abused & neglect her first five (5) children and lost her parental rights.
She didn’t only allow her husband to abuse them she also abused her children. Do we have to go through the long list of abuse the she did to them? History of Abuse
I was there when she had the first one in 2006 and reported her for abuse. She had drugs, a register child sex offender live with them in her daughter’s room.
She would let her oldest daughter stay the night with teen boys next door when she was only 2 years old!!!!
How many times has she been reported? How many times has she been evicted? How many time has she lied? How many times did she not even show up in court?
I have seen her with her children on many occasions and she was a horrible mother and still is.
I will say this if any thing happens to my granddaughter the fault will be on Logan County Courts & OKDHS.
PLEASE DO SOMETHING BEFORE SOMETHING HAPPENS TO HER!!!!!!!!!
I am Paula Edens Baer, the material grandmother of the now six (6) children born to Krystal Elaina Taylor maiden name Edens.
I want to say thank you for removing the parents’ parental rights to the five (5) children, my grandchildren. (Kaylie, Gerald, Patrick, Kaytlynn & Stephen Taylor).
I have reported and fought for these precious babies since 2006 to stop the abuse happening to them since the oldest was born.
I can only assume that you are still residing over this case with sixth (6th) child born to the mother, my daughter. And I hope and pray that you will terminated her parental rights to this child also.
I have never meet, held or even kissed my last two grandchildren (Stephen or the 6th, baby M.) but I love them and my heart is heavy because I want them to be safe, happy and in a loving home without abuse.
I, myself am a survivor of abuse from the time I was born until I was 15. I was born into a family of abusers and lived in the same house the daughter lives in now. Children have been abused mentally emotionally, and sexually in my family goes back 50 years.
And this is why I ask you to please do not give baby M to anyone in our family. Keep her far away from the abusers.
I am willing to do whatever it takes to help in this case to keep my grandchildren safe from all abuse.
Please feel free to contact me at firstname.lastname@example.org
Paula Edens Baer
There was a 6th child (baby girl) born in 2016 to the abusive mother. We call her baby M for short. She has the same mother but a different father than her other five siblings who were taken by OKDHS.
She was taken by OKDHS also when she was a few months old. She is in foster care. Her mother gets to visit her and is trying to get her back.
Now this I am not getting, we got parent(s) here who has lost their six children to OKDHS because of abuse, mentally, emotionally, sexually, etc. And using their children to get government assistance so they will not have to work. And yet OKDHS says “We want to unify the family?” This is not family! This is not love! And this is not parenting!
HISTORY OF THE ABUSE IN OUR FAMILY
- Sibling was taken by OKDHS when they were an infant & returned at two years old.
- Our mother had a miscarriage & claimed she flush it down a toilet.
- Our father sexually abuse children since he was a teenager.
- Our mother physically & emotionally abused us (girls).
- Sibling had a baby as a teen & he was taken by OKDHS.
- Great grandfather was a child molester. (deceased)
- Grandfather (father’s side) was a child molester. (deceased)
- Great uncle (mom’s side) was a child molester. (deceased)
- Our uncle (mom’s side) is a child molester.
- There has been many children now grown who were molested in and out of our family by family members.
- Two sibling(s) abused & molested me as a child.
- Most of the abuse above happened in the house where my grandchildren were taken by OKDHS. The mother is still living there now.
In this house there has been domestic violence, sexual abuse of women & children, drugs & alcohol abuse, full of mold, cockroaches, etc.
We started a new petition to have the House of Horror torn down where my grandchildren, other family members and I were abused mentally, physically and sexually as children from 1970s to 2011. We have contacted the Local Newspaper and more to get this house torn down. Help us by signing the petition.
SIGN THE PETITION
For many years, I fought for four (4) of my grandchildren to free from their abusive parents. It wasn’t an easy fight but it did finally happen and their parental rights were removed by the courts.
Then I heard there was a 5th baby born, a boy named Stephen. I have never met, seen or held him. He was taken by OKDHS at birth I was told by the PA. I begin to fight to help him not be placed back with his abusive parents. Last I heard the parents rights was terminated and he was adopted. He is now 3 years old. I saw a photo of him as a newborn, today for the first time.
I know many say well the abusive parents can change. That may be true, but I cannot and will not sacrifice any child and take that chance of them not surviving. They don’t have a choice but the parents do.
The parents separated and the “father” remarried and moved on. The “mother” ended up pregnant for the 6th time by another man and she had a baby girl, who was taken by OKDHS at a few months old. I heard her name starts with the letter “M” and the “mother” has visitation and is trying to get her back.
So, the fight continues now for baby “M”. May the courts not return her to her “abusive mother” and may she find a home full of protection, love and safety.
I am a grandmother of ten (10) grandchildren. I only get to see four (4) of the ten (10). I miss my grandchildren every day. I pray for them everyday. And I know one day they will find me and they will know they had a grandmother who loved them to fight for them to be free from abuse.
As a child I lived with two abusive parents. My mother was more abusive physically and my “father” was sexually. When they finally divorced it was my “father” who divorced her and she was devastated. She wanted him more than anything else, even her own children.
A parent who puts the abuser before her own children is not a survivor. She is just as addictive to the abuse as the abuser.
Many who claim to be a survivor of domestic violence are not. The truth is they use that as an excuse to stay sick, unfit and even to play the victim role. Someone who is seen as a victim it is hard to see as a abuser, also. And people begin to feel sorry for them.
In order to live with theirself, they claim they didn’t know he was abusing their children in that way (sexually). When the truth is they knew and didn’t want to stop it cause they didn’t want to lose their husband.
Does living with an abuser give you the right to abuse your children or allow them to be abused? No!
The only true victim is the child(ren).